Bumming

Master and I slept in later than we had intended to. But since it's also the first weekend in about a month where we didn't have to set an alarm clock, it's understandable.

While we were sitting in the living room drinking our coffee, and trying to wake up, I asked if we could go bumming around. We had to go to the pet store anyway, so I figured why not have a day of just Him and I hitting a few stores, do some shopping, etc. At first He seemed fine with it. I mean He said how much driving would be involved, but He didn't really seem affected by that one way or the other. Normally I'm not the type to just want to go bumming around. Normally I'm the type to get what we need and get the fuck out. But today I felt like bumming.

Master, not so much. We still went, but He seemed irritated the whole time. The lines, the driving, the crowds. Etc. He didn't bitch or complain or anything but I could tell He wasn't pleased. He found a book He wanted though, and we got the dog what he needed. We hit another store where I had seen a pair of boots that I wanted a week ago. But when we got there they didn't have them. Of course. I swear sometimes it seems like the minute I decide I actually want something that is sold in a normal store (as in not a porn store or a tattoo parlor) which I almost never do, they don't have what I want, or if they do they don't have it in the size I need.

Yes I got that skirt not that long ago but I wasn't there looking for a skirt. We just stumbled across it. Today I was on a mission to buy a really sexy pair of boots at a particular store, and of course it wasn't in stock anymore. Hell they didn't even have the display pair anymore. And it had only been a week. So yes, that irritated the shit out of me. And it was also irritating me that I had set out for the day to just have a relaxed bumming around kind of day with my Hubby and He wasn't in the mood for it. Although it didn't seem like that when we first left the house.

I understand that sometimes our moods just don't match up. I get that. But I wish I would have known before we left because I would have just forgotten about it and just hit the stores we had to and came home. It's frustrating going out to bum with someone who doesn't want to be there at all.

Apparently I'm still irritated about it, although I'm not trying to be. Today didn't suck or anything. I'm bummed about the boots, but it was just the fact that I had a certain idea of how today would be, and it didn't turn out that way at all. So I think at this point my best course of action is to just try to vent a little bit on here, take a few deep breathes, and just try to relax and enjoy the rest of the evening.