One More Time

I wasn't able to do my blog post last night because Word Press was inaccessible as far as logging in and doing things. Weird.

Master read my last post and He said that He thought I was going to get my blog "back on track" meaning more about submission,sex, and whats on my mind and less about day to day stuff.

Well, that's true. But I don't want to stop posting that kind of stuff. I mean the day to day more mundane stuff is still a part of my life. I'm still going to be talking about our animals, my job, our "regular" lives, things I like, things I dislike. Why? Because it helps me to get all that stuff out of my head.

And sometimes I want to try and do more than one blog post in a day. Like if a subject later on in the day or night pops into my head, I don't want to think to myself, "Well I'll save that for tomorrow because I already did a post today." No. Cause then the subject leaves my mind almost entirely and I forget about it.

I know He's just trying to keep my on track. I know that. But I just wanted to explain to the readers (you guys) in case some of you were wondering the same thing.

Plus if all my posts started just focusing on submission, I'm going to eventually just run out of shit to say. I post every day. It's hard to think of something to write on only one part of my life every day.

Today though I've been thinking about fetish wear.

My personal favorite is leather. I love leather. I love the feel and smell of it. It's very comfortable and also keeps me warm in the middle of winter. But in summer? It sucks. Way too warm.

And it's expensive. I don't have any leather "typical" fetish wear. I have my leather jacket, one pair of leather chaps, and one leather vest. That's it.

Master has a leather trench coat, which I love on Him. And a regular leather jacket.

Again, that's it.It's just very expensive and I never have the money to afford more. Especially leather skirts, or corsets. I wouldn't mind a few of those. Maybe some more chaps. Those would of course be more for fall or winter though.

And I don't mean just for sex. I also want  to wear them out and about. That and leather is not very forgiving if you go beyond jackets and vests. It doesn't give much. So if you put on a little weight, or lose a little weight, you're kinda screwed because it's not going to fit right.

Then again that's another thing that's kind been on my mind. Chicks have tons of fetish gear or lingerie they can wear. Tons and tons.

Guys? Not unless they are the slave/sub/bottom. No, not really.

One time Master wore a leather skull cap while fucking me because I asked Him to. But even with me being a leather enthusiast if Master were to wear nothing but chaps He'd melt about 10 minutes into fucking me. He's naturally very warm and I use His body as a space heater in winter. So yeah, toss leather chaps onto that, plus the physical exertion of fucking... melted Yote.

But other than that, nope.

I'm not saying He wouldn't if we found something and I asked Him to. But, on all the sites I've seen and in all the porn shops I've been in it's all for bottoms. No Dom or Master type gear. Or at least nothing I see as such.

It's a lot of "bitch" gear. And I don't mean bitch as in female, I mean bitch as in the "bitch" of the relationship. The beta, the bottom, the slave, the sub.

I'm the bitch. So I wear bitch gear. Master is not the bitch. So it would look utterly ridiculous on Him and be a major turn off.

I've always kind of thought that the chicks in the relationship have more to do to entice their partner than the guys anyway. I mean, unless you're into seeing your guy in a thong... which I'm not... what is there for your guy to wear for you? Nothing that I've ever seen that I would actually want to see on my Man.

The guys have to rely on personal hygiene (which everyone should!) and their sexual talents. There isn't really anything they can do other wise.

Chicks have lingerie, fetish gear, make-up, etc to try and keep their partner interested.

I think the reason this may be is because typically speaking men are more visual creatures than women. So chicks have all these ways to be visually appealing to look at.

But still, it kind of sucks. I don't mind getting dolled up for Master. But sometimes I think it would be nice for Him to do stuff like that too. But what really is there that I would actually find appealing? Like I said, nothing I've found.

I mean there are sex toys, like cock rings and stuff like that.. but that's not really the same. And aside from the more romantic stuff... candles, rose petals, stuff like that... there isn't much a guy can do, again outside of His sexual talents, to turn the chick on even more. Well, there is bondage and giving pain and what not, if that trips their chick's trigger, but again nothing really outside of that realm. It's either romantic, or it's kinky.

Like I said there is nothing really that a guy can do (visually speaking) to alert their woman "Hey baby... I'm in the mood..." without having to say a word.

Weird thoughts. But interesting.